Welcome to Me Beyond We. Finding or reclaiming your identity after relationship loss can be overwhelming. As women, we tend to find a sense of self through our relationships. When the relationship ends, whether by death, divorce, or growth beyond the current state, we can feel lost. We look in the mirror and wonder who that person is in the reflection. You find yourself standing in the aisle at almost any store trying to figure out what you like, what you want and wondering if you are losing your mind. If this is where you are, please know I understand and I can help you find your way back to the you waiting to emerge. Come in, have a look around and get ready to meet a brand new version of you!
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Hello! I’m Wanda Lane PhD and I am here to walk with you through what can be a scary,
confusing, and painful season. I hold a master’s degree in adult education and a PhD in
communication; however, I am not a counselor. I am woman who has grown after a divorce many years ago and more recently I became a widow. I am also a mom to three adult children who has navigated empty nesting. I understand the loss of identity. I understand how it feels to look at a stranger in the mirror and I have learned how to reclaim my identity amidst all the grief, fear, anger, and sadness. I learned how to move forward into a new iteration of myself and how to look forward to the future. I want that for each of you. Be well and be joyful!
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Today I want you to think about the challenges you have faced this year. Amazingly, we are already approaching mid-year, so I know that there must be something that comes to mind. For me, there have b... ...more
Planting Seeds
May 16, 2024•8 min read
A couple of weeks ago I issued a challenge to all of you regarding choosing to live life intentionally. Have you ever cliff-jumped? It’s fun, exhilarating, and scary, but it is always a 3,2,1 jump exp... ...more
Planting Seeds
April 22, 2024•4 min read
It might just be me, but my twenties were all about travel, fun and, well, me. I had a bucket list and went for it. It was pretty adventurous and lots of fun, but really lonely. My thirties were all a... ...more
Planting Seeds
April 03, 2024•10 min read
Do you ever indulge in dream days? I’m not talking about dreamy perfect days that make you smile just thinking about them. I mean, do you ever take days to sit in a quiet place and just dream of the p... ...more
Planting Seeds
March 27, 2024•7 min read
Do you remember being a little kid and planting the bean in a cup at school? You planted it just so, sat it in the window and watched for the first signs of life. It was so exciting to see that first ... ...more
Planting Seeds
March 20, 2024•10 min read